Today I came across this picture of my dad visiting my son, Jake Schomer, during his freshman year at Purdue University. The picture was about two years ago. So many feelings come over me looking at this photo. My dad, a chemistry major, looks so proud that finally one of his eleven grandchildren was pursuing something science-related since none of his four children embarked on any career in science. I also see a man who is not only the smartest man I know, but the most humble. My dad has the strongest German work ethic. In his career and life, he works with integrity, drive, and gratitude. Looking at this photo, I know those are values he passed on to me and my three siblings but seeing him standing by my son, I know it principles he has instilled in his grandchildren as well. This was evident to me this summer.
As my son completed his second year of Industrial Engineering at Purdue like many college students he was in pursuit of an job let alone a possible internship. After emailing several resumes and contacting several employers, He landed an interview for an internship for an industrial engineer position. After the interview, He called me to say that he thought it went well and that they would let him know next week. By Tuesday, He called and talked with the lead engineer. The engineer said that, ” We decided to hire a college graduate for a full-time position but you have a good future ahead of you,” Jake was obviously disappointed but a few days later decided to send an email to the lead engineer. In the email he wrote something to the effect of, ” Thanks for the opportunity. I enjoyed meeting with you. If any position opens up, even part-time, could you please let me know?” What happened next? About an hour later, the gentleman emailed him back and said, ” I’ve given it some thought. We could use you. Call me Monday.”
Persistence paid off. Just by simply saying thank you, my son received a paid internship, gained money in his bank account, learned valuable skills in his field,but importantly learned the biggest lesson of humility and to be appreciative of all opportunities. I know this value- set was passed down from my father, who at 83 is still the hardest working man I know. Persistence paid off for my dad, too, he finally has a future heir pursing something science related. In the end, it is me who is grateful. Thanks, dad!
Be Persistent . Be Humble. Be Thankful.
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October 9, 2016 at 12:04 pm
I love this! Sure we can be disappointed when things don’t go our way, but still be grateful for opportunities. Thanks for sharing.
October 10, 2016 at 8:17 am
I worked for a doctor who told me he could teach anyone anything but he couldn’t teach personality and integrity. I believe your son epitomizes that truth. You have a right to be proud of him as well as yourself for training up a child in the way he should go. Proverbs 22:6. Blessings,
October 10, 2016 at 9:05 am
Ellie~ Thank you. One of my favorite verses. Ironically, his 3rd grade teacher gave him that verse & framed it for a xmas present. It is still in his room. I love your story as well . I feel the same way about people. Hire them for who they are ` everything else CAN be taught . Blessings to you.
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October 10, 2016 at 11:48 am
Yup, so true – I’m just grateful he didn’t teach surgery, 🙂
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